" />Easier SAID than DONE
Friday, June 24, 2011 | 11:29 PM | 2 comments
have you ever experience this particular situation where you are so eager to know the truth but then you are so afraid of knowing it. ambivalence? yes, definitely... it kinda confused and not knowing where you stand is the most crucial part of having this kind of feeling. not knowing what you shall do or don't. confused with every words, with every actions, with every thought and ending up with saying "hey! what do men wants anyway??".
i know the feeling of wanting to ask/ to know where you stand.. but, asking is not always the best solution.
there are words better left unspoken and works better left undone. and that was the easiest part of not hurting someone.. (i learned it the hard way.. unfortunately). asking "what will it be" is not always the best move in clearing things up. coz everything might fall apart when you know that the answer isn't laid on your side. sometime it is better to see it first, regardless on your emotions and on how you will see things with no bias.. as what they've always told us, "expect the worst" for that was the only way for somehow lessen the pain when the truth finally comes out..
truth sucks and there's nothing you can do about it.. better you deal with it or.......... deal with it.. that's life and reality really hurts, for sometimes we got caught up in our fantasy of being with someone we love yet deep in side we already knew that this will never be true.. unfair?? totally!! well, it starts from loving someone sooo much and expecting for nothing in return.. they say true love works that way, well i say it sucks!.
better be careful on what you say or better say nothing at all..